Vision for Family
February 25th, 2009 by
Dennis Rouse

Proverbs 29:18a says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” (KJV) This is true for individuals, and it is true for entire societies. In our society today, many people have lost sight of God’s vision for family and are confused. So many families today don’t fit the model described in the Bible. In fact, a lot of people don’t even think you need to be committed in marriage. The idea of family has kind of become a confusing mess.
This shouldn’t really surprise us, though. You see, our enemy the devil knows that family, as God intended it, is the fabric of society. So, if he can get us confused about it, he can ultimately destroy us. Think about it: every societal problem can be traced back to the breakdown of the family. If we want to walk in the fullness of 20/20 LIFE, we need to get God’s Vision for Family.
This means recognizing that it is God’s will for us (with very few exceptions) to be married and have children. There should be no confusion in this. Yes, being single can be good as far as being able to go after God without hindrance. However, loneliness is no small obstacle. Because of this, God created marriage, saying, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.’ (Genesis 2:18, NKJ) And, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD.” (Proverbs 18:22, NKJ) Marriage, therefore, is a part of God’s plan, as well as a sign of His favor and blessing.
If you’re already married or thinking about getting married and wondering about the truth of that last statement, consider this: God intends for our marriage to reflect His relationship with us. It should be a relationship in which we say (as God says to us):
- I will forgive you when you do something wrong.
- I will be there for you when you’re going through trouble.
- I will listen to you and communicate with you regularly.
- We will have an intimate life together.
- We will live a life of adventure that will require faith.
- We will do something together that makes a difference in the world.
- I will never leave you or forsake you.
The second part of God’s Vision for Family is to equip our children to fulfill their purpose on the earth. Wait – you don’t want kids? Honestly, I think God’s got a problem with that. Why? Well, I don’t really have room to go into that here, so I encourage you to listen to or watch last weekend’s message where I went into it in detail. Suffice it to say that God “…seeks godly offspring” (Malachi 2:15, NKJ), and has commanded us to “Be fruitful and multiply….” (Genesis 1:28, NKJ) Beyond that, children are one of His best tools in delivering us from our selfishness. It IS God’s will for us to have children. That being the case, we need to ask and answer these questions:
- What are the character traits I envision my children having?
- What level of wisdom should they have before they leave the house?
- What kind of worldview do I want them to have?
- How will they think about money and possessions?
- What kind of person have I trained them to marry?
- Am I modeling a purposeful life for them to follow?
How we answer these questions will determine the vision we have for our family. So, I urge you: give your family a purpose. Walk in the blessings of 20/20 LIFE that God intends for you and your children. Get God’s Vision for Family!
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