
With the start of the holiday season quickly approaching, Pastor Colleen Rouse hosted the last ChickChat of 2009 on Friday, November 20th. “I’ve been to a few ChickChats before and they’ve been amazing.” said Alysha McCree as she strolled around the elegantly decorated Victory World Church V1 main lobby “I appreciate the opportunity to be fed by my Senior Pastor, but I really appreciate the opportunity to fellowship and share.” At 26, Alysha knows many of her peers could use the wisdom, love and sense of camaraderie that can only come from other women. “If they’ve come this far without having women pour into their lives, they need to be here.”

Of course, no ChickChat would be complete without the awesome work of the Victory Special Events Team lead by wonder woman Catherine Bach, and they did not disappoint! Beautifully decorated tables offering assorted teas and beverages dotted the V1 floor creating an easy and relaxed atmosphere. New mom Susan, attending her second ChickChat, gazed around the lobby taking it all in. “My first experience at ChickChat was good. It gave me the opportunity to learn.” As her sister-in-law, and first time attendee, Marini, joined her, she continued, “I think it is important to get knowledge and learn how to manage life.” Marini smiled and added, “I just wanted to come and experience it.”
As the crowd, undeterred by the chilly autumn air and threat of rain, continued to file in, Ada Lopez settled back into one of the conversation areas. When asked why she attends ChickChat she replied “This is a time for us women to come together. This allows us to be ministered to and grow together. I feel great after I come.”

Once the sanctuary doors opened, the evening’s emcee, Ashley Sheering, welcomed the audience and got things off to a great start with a tee shirt toss. Then, the Victory Praise Team took the stage and warmed the crowd up with praise and worship. After a short video clip featuring people juggling various objects, Pastor Colleen took the stage to deliver her message entitled “From Marginal Women to Women with Margin,” and what a message it was. Talk about timely.
Many women will spend the next four weeks agonizing over decorating the house, preparing the perfect holiday meal, shopping for the perfect gifts and serving in various ministries, and will find themselves stretched to their limit. Think about the days leading up to Thanksgiving, for instance. Wednesday night comes, you’re making your list and checking it twice. Turkey – check. Recipe for Aunt Betty’s special oyster stuffing – check. Ingredients for your very own so-good-it-will-make-Paula Deen-envious pumpkin pie – check. Circulars for the Friday sales along with maps and store floor plans – check. Weight Watchers membership information – check. See what I mean? By the time the New Year comes you could find yourself suffering from one of three maladies of the soul:
- Performance Virus – Doing because you should
- Perfection Infection – Doing because you can
- Disease to Please – Doing because you must

Do you make Aunt Betty’s special oyster stuffing because you want to or because it’s a family tradition? If it’s only because it’s a family tradition you may have Performance Virus. Ask yourself will it really matter if the stuffing comes from a box? Besides, do you even like oyster stuffing? What about your pumpkin pie? Sure you can make a great pie, but will the world stop if the pumpkin pie comes from the local grocery store? Probably not, but if you’re convinced it will, then maybe you have Perfection Infection. Must you get up at 3am on Friday to stand in line with a bunch of other stressed out women to fight over a toy your 4-year old won’t remember next year? If so then you may be suffering from Disease to Please. Could you be suffering from one or all of these maladies? Sadly, most of us are, but there is hope.
Pastor Colleen explained that we need to examine our motives in doing for others, and we need to beware of martyrdom. Ephesians 2:8 says: “For it is by free grace that you are saved through faith. And this is not of yourselves but it is the gift of God.” Pastor Colleen encouraged us to embrace His unlimited love (Jeremiah 31:3) and embrace our limited abilities (Psalms 121:1). She also reminded us that we must master the ability to live within the awareness of the Source of our empowerment. It’s not about balance it’s about focus.

To top off the evening, we were blessed by surprise guest, Valorie Burton, author of the book “How Did I Get So Busy?” Valorie helped reinforce Pastor Colleen’s message by sharing her own insight and giving the audience something to think about when she cautioned that the enemy keeps us busy to get us off track and keep us away from God’s purpose. A hilarious question and answer session followed, which included tips for managing your e-mail inbox, effective Blackberry use and overcoming Facebook addiction. By the end of the evening we had learned that we must have fun, tame our tech habits and most importantly, govern our souls.
Afterwards, the “chicks” returned to the V1 lobby to gather in the candlelit conversation areas and (what else?) chat while enjoying specially brewed coffees and delectable desserts, including a tasty chocolate treat that quickly disappeared.
If you missed ChickChat this year, have no fear, the first ChickChat of 2010 is planned for February 19. So mark your calendars and come expecting to have fun and be blessed! ~ Karla E.



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